Don't really have any advice to offer in that respect. Not knowing what the comment said, I don't know whether he was being disrespectful of the blog, or wrote something that offended you.
All I can say is restate my plea that you don't stop. There are lots of us out here who are very interested in what you have to say, love hearing about what LB gets up to, and would be saddened if you stop.
My personal opinion is that if he doesn't like what you write, he doesn't have to read it, but I quite understand if you don't share my thoughts.
From what you have written about Dear Heart in the past, I can't believe his intention was to devastate you. Perhaps he meant well and it didn't come out right? or perhaps it was meant as a joke but just didn't come out that way when you read it?
Sometimes people write things withut realising how they sound when read cold.
Talk it over with him and - hard though this may be, as you are obviously so very hurt - try to start by seeking to understand what his motivation was, before reacting.
Sybil if your hubby objects to your blogging comments so strongly that he feels the need to post strong comments to you,then perhaps you should indeed give up posting as your real life is much much more important than your cyber one
Oh dear, I am sorry that your blogging is causing problems at home. I hope you can come to a resolve over it and that it doesn't affect your relationship. Be strong. Sue x
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Hugs.
Don't really have any advice to offer in that respect. Not knowing what the comment said, I don't know whether he was being disrespectful of the blog, or wrote something that offended you.
All I can say is restate my plea that you don't stop. There are lots of us out here who are very interested in what you have to say, love hearing about what LB gets up to, and would be saddened if you stop.
My personal opinion is that if he doesn't like what you write, he doesn't have to read it, but I quite understand if you don't share my thoughts.
xx
Sybil, what did he say?
And have you talked to him about it?
From what you have written about Dear Heart in the past, I can't believe his intention was to devastate you. Perhaps he meant well and it didn't come out right? or perhaps it was meant as a joke but just didn't come out that way when you read it?
Sometimes people write things withut realising how they sound when read cold.
Talk it over with him and - hard though this may be, as you are obviously so very hurt - try to start by seeking to understand what his motivation was, before reacting.
<> to you
Hazel
My comment was meant to have the word HUGS in between the < >. Sorryxx
Sybil if your hubby objects to your blogging comments so strongly that he feels the need to post strong comments to you,then perhaps you should indeed give up posting as your real life is much much more important than your cyber one
Lesleyxxx
Oh dear, I am sorry that your blogging is causing problems at home. I hope you can come to a resolve over it and that it doesn't affect your relationship. Be strong. Sue x
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